We are the result of our setting and the people we communicate with every day. We do not know how and how to believe as we do much of our time with the people with whom we spend. It is necessary therefore to be careful and choose the people you want.
There are 9 forms of people who can have a beneficial influence on you and assist you on the success path.
People who are ambitious and passionate
Surround yourself with people with goals, want to do something and be something in life. Regardless of where they try to perfection, the common denominator is that they have clarity over life and are well informed of their goals. These people are worried about their big picture. You work according to your vision, focus on your goals and still plan on moving on your chosen path.
The doers'
This world is overflowing with people who prepare exceptionally. But it is the people who execute their dreams who tend to accomplish their goals and make their hard work a success. The staff set goals and schedules to meet these objectives. Surround yourself with such people. You will be inspired to tackle delays, take action and drive toward your goals.
The problem solvers
Whoever you are or what you do, in one form or another you still find yourself facing problems. Instead of paralyzing stuff, problem solvers focus on seeking ways of solving problems. Encircle yourself with these people and they will help you to find out how to get there.
Those on a journey like yourself
Surround yourself with the people you want to be, whom you want to be and who have the same ambitions as you. You can talk to such people, talk to them meaningfully, talk about your issues, ask for advice, and seek support from people when you feel stuck.
Those who can inspire and portray you
You observe, mimic, follow and walk in the footsteps of people whom you respect. You still dreamed of becoming the great people. These individuals can be of immense influence, help you get into the winner's mind, trust yourself and trust that you too can achieve your objectives.
Those that support you to make the most of your potential and to achieve the best
Encircle yourself with others who know you, recognize your hopes and ambitions and support you to achieve your goals. They could be family members, friends or colleagues — someone with whom you can chat about your good and negative stuff, your assets and limitments, strengths and weaknesses, and feel secure talking with your heart. It will help you to contact and feel secure and motivated in your true self.
Those who can give real input
Hearing positive things about ourselves is human nature. Most people gravitate and communicate favorably about those who respect them. However, it's not prudent to always have 'yes' to you. It is vital for you to be able to have a realistic view of yourself and know your blind spots, that you be surrounded by people who provide sincere input and who do not talk thinly when they give you honest opinion. They will help you strengthen yourself, correct mistakes and help you develop in your weak places.
Who can help you to stay comfortable, up-to-date and optimistic
You will face challenges, issues, problems and difficulties on your good journey, which can make you feel low. It's crucial that a support group is developed and that people can hold their minds when they're chips down and reinforce your values when it seems dark and nebulous. These cheerleaders will be there to help you tide down moments when you want them most.
The people who move forward
Surround yourself with people who walk forever. You're not at one time content about performance. For them, success is an ongoing journey. You set yourself targets; you work hard to reach them; you get what you want, but don't stop. They're not on their laurels to relax. These people still go ahead. If a number of milestones are missed, the bar is raised and a new set of goals is established. These people will inspire and motivate you to continue doing new things and set yourself new goals.
You cannot change the people around you, but you certainly have the authority to select the people to whom you want to be closely associated and influence you. Enter into the most ambitious and efficient individuals you want to develop. This choice will help you remain in a positive mood, to work hard to achieve your objectives, to fulfill your ambitions and to lead a happy and healthy life.
